Posts Tagged ‘excuses’
An excuse is a different way to disguise a lie , they are a cheap way to escape from telling the truth or “real reason” why we do certain things and or make certain decisions.
Excuse is also a hide the ” coward” part of ourselves that does not want to face a situation with maturity and sincerity, instead we hide behind an excuse again to avoid to tell the truth.
Why is that, are we afraid?? Or just dishonest??? Cowards??? All that resumes the same.
Excuses are telling you don’t have the guts to tell the truth or the real reason why your changed your mind so instead of telling the reason why you want out to hide behind a cheap excused.
Why don’t to tell the truth ?? a good reason or explanation to the other person who is waiting for you is always well appreciated.
Why excuses?? Excuses hide the real truth , excuse is a cheap shield to avoid telling the real reason.
So that is the difference in between an excuse and a reason.
Excuse is a lie, a cheap way to escape, to confront, no guts, only cowards put excuses to love only brave hearts tell the truth.
Even if it seems cruel or rough truth is better , a real reason shows honesty and respect, excuses are careless, selfish, excuses show you don’t care to tell the truth nor you care about the other persons feelings and or well being.
You should consider you lucky if you have someone’s heart beating because of you, not everyone experience such a bless in life.
Tell the truth if you don’t want the relationship to continue anymore for some reason, speak the truth, be brave enough to tell the truth, be honest, will be painful but the can heal faster, with hollow and meaningless excuses and or silence does in creases the other’s persons pain and suffering.
I would rather to face a situation and tell the truth than leaving the other wondering why you left and or why you are not speaking and or why you use such cheap explanations of why you don’t have time to share love.
The truth is you don’t want to share it, so then set the other person free. Free up their heart mind and spirit so that they can move on.
With lies and excuses and or silence you are not only manipulation your own feelings and selfishness but you are also taking the other persons heart upon your self indirectly deciding for them.
Creating confusion, disappointment sadness, emptiness, if you don’t care just say it, do not do this to other human being simply because you don’t share the same feelings.
BE HONEST, DON’T PLAY WITH SOMEONE ELSES FEELINGS, BE STRAIGHT, BE REAL,, BE UP FRONT, NOBODY HAS TO LIVE HOLDING ON TO YOUR LIES, THA TIS CRUEL, IF YOU LOVE YOURSELF THEN YOU CAN LOVE EVERYBODY ELSE ND IF YOU DO, LET THEM BE FREE.