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The year 2008 has come and gone. There are a lot of thoughts crossing my mind that I would like to share with all of my fans. It’s not because of the holiday season or the time of year but just things that have happened over the past few months. I’d like to share these personal thought with you all.
I’d like to ask, “How important it is to notice real love in life?” Most of the time we don’t open our eyes and notice what’s in front of us. We lead out lives at such a fast pace that we don’t stop and think about how special we are when we have someone to love or we are being loved. When you say you love someone and someone loves you back, you should take notice of that because that is something special that doesn’t come along everyday. You should listen, be understanding, and keep that unconditional commitment in every way. Many times we think that just being with someone and doing stuff together is considered love. Then when something bad happens we don’t want to or take the time to listen.
When you love someone you don’t judge or try to change the other person. You’re in love with that person because of who they are. You try to be understanding and see where the person is coming from. Many times we are focused on our daily activities and surroundings but when you’re in a committed relationship, you are not alone. Your world then becomes a shared world. A world that is shared between 2 people. It’s always important to love yourself but if you let other matters take over your heart you will loose sight and never see the other person. You will never see the other person or give the true love they deserve. Love is when you have a problem and there is a person who lends a shoulder for you to cry on and lend an ear to listen. Love is when one has a problem, or needs to yell, and release some stress. Your partner is there to give you a hug and let you know that everything will be ok. Love is to be there for your partner when they need you the most. No matter what time it is day or night or what the issue maybe.
Love is when you go to sleep and yet you hold the other person in your dreams. They’re always in your heart as you watch over you at all times. When you let other activities take over your life, you do no longer love. Your only looking at your self and what you want. You then become selfish to the point where you no loner can commit to the other persons feelings or necessities. Love is when you wake up and your heart is beating for the other person, crying out for the other person. Your whole life is then focused on the other person, which is the way it should be as a couple. Love is to share the plan for the future and the dreams of the future. Love is when you go to sleep and you still miss the person even though the person is right next to you. Love is not to be afraid of anything new. Not to be afraid of the other person emotions to be better. To be the calm water in the ocean.
When you give up your heart you don’t hold anything back. Everything is being given away. Love is making every day a magic day not only the good times but the bad times as well. Love is when you walk through life and you take your partners hand and hold on tight. You become each other’s guide through the path of life. Love is not only when everything is good and happy but also when things are bad and at there darkest. When things are dark and cloudy love will bring a ray of light and brighten up the darkest night. When you love someone you always think of something good to do to make your partners life better no matter what. No matter how hard your day can get or how busy you are, you just want to run to your partner and tell them how much you love them and thank god that they are next to you.
I always like to compare Love like a fruit tree. The tree will always grow big and strong as long as you provide water and oxygen for it to grow. All things you do or don’t do will reflect on the tree and it’s wellbeing. The tree will grow according to the way you treat that tree. If you neglect the tree and don’t water the tree, the fruit and it’s branches will wither and die. The tree will cease to exist.
Remember to listen to someone’s heart is part of being in love.